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Estate Planning for Unmarried Couples

Estate planning is often associated with married couples, but it’s equally important for unmarried partners to consider. Whether you’re in a committed relationship, cohabiting, or engaged, taking proactive steps to protect each other and your shared assets can provide peace of mind and ensure that your wishes are honored.

Understanding the Importance

Unmarried couples face unique challenges when it comes to estate planning, as they may not have the same legal protections and rights as married couples. Without proper planning, your partner may not be entitled to inherit your assets or make critical decisions on your behalf in the event of incapacity or death. Estate planning allows you to address these concerns and tailor a plan that reflects your wishes and safeguards your partner’s interests.

Key Considerations

  1. Wills and Trusts: A will is a foundational document in estate planning that outlines how you want your assets distributed after your death. Without a Will, state intestacy laws will determine the distribution of your assets, which may not align with your wishes or benefit your partner at all. Consider creating a will or trust to possibly designate your partner as a beneficiary and and as the Personal Representative (“Executor”) and Trustee of your estate and Trust.
  2. Joint Ownership: Joint ownership (with rights of survivorship) of assets, such as bank accounts, real estate, and investments, can simplify the transfer of assets to your partner upon your death if that is in line with your wishes. Joint tenancy with rights of survivorship ensures that your share of the property passes directly to your partner, bypassing probate and potential challenges from other heirs. Nevertheless, there are also some important disadvantages to joint ownership between non-married couples that you should discuss with your attorney.
  3. Beneficiary Designations: Review and update beneficiary designations on retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and other financial assets to ensure that your partner is provided for as you wish. Without proper designations, these assets may pass to other family members or beneficiaries according to default provisions.
  4. Healthcare Power of Attorney and Healthcare Directive: In the event of incapacity, healthcare Powers of Attorney will allow whoever you designate (possibly your partner) to make medical decisions on your behalf. The document also outlines your preferences for end-of-life care. These documents ensure that your wishes are respected.
  5. Estate Tax Planning: Unmarried couples may face estate tax implications if their combined assets exceed the applicable exemption amount. Consult with a qualified estate planning attorney to explore tax-saving strategies, such as gifting, trusts, and other planning techniques to minimize tax liabilities and maximize wealth transfer to your partner.

Navigating Legal Challenges

Unlike married couples, unmarried partners may encounter legal challenges related to inheritance rights, property ownership, and parental rights, especially in the absence of formal legal recognition of their relationship. Consulting with an experienced estate planning attorney who understands the nuances of unmarried couple planning can help address these challenges and tailor a comprehensive plan that protects your interests and reflects your intentions.

Conclusion

Estate planning is essential for unmarried couples to safeguard their future and ensure that their wishes are honored. By taking proactive steps to create a personalized estate plan, you can protect your partner, preserve your assets, and navigate legal complexities with confidence. Whether you’re cohabiting, engaged, or in a long-term relationship, estate planning provides a roadmap for securing your future together and building a legacy that reflects your shared values and aspirations.

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Debunking Estate Planning Myths 2.0 (Continued) https://attorneycox.com/debunking-estate-planning-myths-2-0-continued/ Fri, 29 Aug 2025 18:30:05 +0000 https://attorneycox.com/?p=2315 Taking a deeper look at the most common estate planning myths. This is a continuation from a previous blog article.

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Debunking Estate Planning Myths 2.0 (Continued)

This article takes a deeper look at the most common estate planning myths and is a continuation of a previous blog article.  If you have not already, please read the first article about 12 common estate planning myths.

Myth 13: Estate Planning is expensive.
There is, of course, a cost for any law firm to draft appropriate documents for you, but it is probably less than most people think. That expense is always worth eliminating the stress, hardship and further expense that would be incurred by your family if you do not have an Estate Plan in place.

Myth 14: A Durable Power of Attorney gives my agent the right to take control of my assets after my passing.
A Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) is a “must have” document that our office always recommends, but the authority under that document terminates upon your death. A DPOA cannot be used to distribute assets, pay bills or really do anything after your passing.

Myth 15: It takes too much time and effort to retitle your assets into a Revocable Living Trust.
There’s always 2 steps to creating a trust. Step one entails drafting and signing your Trust document, and step two entails funding your trust. E.g., retitling assets (bank accounts, real estate, investments, etc.) into the name of your trust. That sounds overwhelming, but it is usually a very quick and easy process. Most of it can be accomplished over the phone or online. Often, the only actual places where people have to get in their car and go to are their bank and the Dept. of Motor Vehicles. Our office provides you with detailed written instructions on exactly what you need to do with each of your assets.

Myth 16: If I create a Revocable Living Trust, my assets are protected from creditors.
Unfortunately, this is not true. A normal Estate Planning revocable living Trust does not protect your assets from your creditors. If you get sued and get a judgment against you, creditors can seize your assets that are titled in the name of your Trust as you are viewed as the owner of those assets even though they’re titled in the name of your Trust. Normal Estate Planning Trusts are not asset protection Trusts. I always encourage clients to have adequate insurance to cover any possible claims – insurance should be your first line of defense.

Myth 17: If I add a child’s name to my account, that will avoid that asset going through Probate Court when I die.
This is not usually correct. Often, bank accounts with a non-spouse are jointly titled as “tenants-in-common,” and that means when you die, the ownership of your portion of that account still needs to go through Probate Court. It also has some very unintended consequences in that the person the you put on the account with you does not need to share that with any of your other beneficiaries. The account is also subject to that other person’s creditors. Finally, another drawback to doing that is that the other person that you have listed on the account may be able to clean out the entire account while you’re living.

Myth 18: There will be a formal reading of my Will after my passing.
This is something that you see in movies, but never happens in real life. Wills used to be read before copy machines were common and when people were illiterate. The people named in your Will most likely will get a copy of your Will, but they will not be gathered in a room for a reading.

Myth 19: I can just list one of my children as the POD beneficiary on my assets, and they’ll divide it among their siblings.
Unfortunately, money makes people act differently than you’d expect. Legally, if you name only one person as a POD on your asses, that person has absolutely no obligation to divide up those assets to anyone else regardless of what they told you or what you told them. The law is clear in that if you only list one person as a POD beneficiary, that person is entitled the everything in the account. In addition, even if they decide to divide it up voluntarily, there could be gift tax consequences for them in doing so. As a result, this is never an advisable Estate Planning strategy to rely on.

Myth 20: I pre-purchased a funeral plan and cemetery plot so that my family won’t have to worry about paying for that after I pass away.
Like everything in life, there’s often a catch. If you prepurchase a casket, viewing, funeral, etc. with a funeral home, you want to check what other expenses the family commonly needs to spend. Often it doesn’t cover everything. You also want to inquire about what happens if that funeral home goes out of business – it could be that you’re out of luck and get nothing in return, and are not even able to get a refund. Be sure there is some type of clause in the prepaid contract providing that another funeral home will step in and cover everything, or that there’s some type of insurance that would reimburse you for your payment. Regarding repurchasing cemetery plots, realize that there are sometimes substantial expenses in addition to just buying the plot such as the headstone, digging the grave, filling up the grave, etc. Often, this is not included in what you pre-purchased. Talk to the cemetery and look at your contract.

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Risks of Joint Trustees https://attorneycox.com/risks-of-joint-trustees/ Wed, 10 Jan 2024 22:05:10 +0000 https://attorneycox.com/?p=1243 While it may initially be appealing to name two or three of your children or other relatives as
joint co-Trustees in your Trust, co-Executors in your Will, or joint co-Agents in your Powers of
Attorney, there are potential problems in doing so.

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Risks of Joint Ownership

While it may initially be appealing to name two or three of your children or other relatives as joint co-Trustees in your Trust, co-Executors in your Will, or joint co-Agents in your Powers of Attorney, there are potential problems in doing so. Our office usually recommends that instead of appointing joint co-Trustees, co-Executors or co-Agents, you appoint one main backup person to act for you, and then appoint additional backups to be named in order of succession so that there is only one person acting at a time. You are legally allowed to appoint two or more individuals jointly to act in these roles, and we will set it up that way if that is what you wish, but must first advise you of some the problems that may arise in doing so. If you appoint two or more people to act jointly, you have the option of either saying that they have to agree on every decision or that each one can act alone. Either of those create potential problems:

  1.  If you mandate that they have to agree on every decision and action, that can be very cumbersome as it requires them to both sign all checks and documents and to agree on every little detail of the management and distribution of your assets. I have seen people who get along very well be unable to agree on something as simple as what bank to use to open a new account. If they don’t all agree, nothing gets done and things can grind to an immediate halt thus frustrating your wishes of an easy and speedy distribution.

  2. If you set up the joint appointment to say that either co-Trustee, co-Executor or co-Agent can act on their own, you’re potentially setting up a situation where each acts on their own, against the wishes of the other, and they each go two separate directions. For example, if the Trustee’s disagree about what bank to open a new Trust account at, each Trustee has the authority to open a Trust account at a bank of their choosing – – each going to a different bank. If the Trustee’s can each act
    on their own without the other’s consent, such a situation can create disastrous consequences that have the potential of bringing the administration of your affairs to another halt.


Both of the above situations can have the same result, your matter is pushed into Probate Court to solve the problems caused by a joint appointment. Having more than one Trustee, Executor or Agent serving at the same time usually slows down the administration process and can stir rancor between children and/or relatives, and, ultimately cause a legal battle. As a parent, the knee jerk reaction is to have all of your children involved in the handling of your Trust, but you’re setting them up for sibling rivalry and conflict by doing so. As a result, our office recommends only appointing one Trustee, Executor or Agent at a time.

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Estate Planning for New Parents https://attorneycox.com/estate-planning-for-new-parents/ Thu, 15 Jun 2023 20:55:19 +0000 https://attorneycox.com/?p=453 Being a new parent can be overwhelming. However, estate planning for new parents is critical for your new family. An experienced attorney can make it easier.

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Estate Planning for New Parents

Having a child is an exciting time. Expecting parents spend an incredible amount of time and money preparing for a new birth or adoption. Choosing a name, preparing the child’s room, purchasing clothing, diapers and the plethora of “accessories” you will need for a new child only seem to be the tip of iceberg. So why do parents avoid making one of the most important steps in preparing for a new child: creating or updating an estate plan? For many, it seems like a daunting task and no one wants to think about his/her death at a time like this. Nevertheless, estate planning is a caring act that you do for your family. Estate planning attorney Chris Cox makes this process much easier than you might think.

If you do not have estate planning documents in place, Missouri law will take over and dictate who will care for your child as well as how your assets will be distributed, and you may not like the results. Here are important considerations for expecting parents:

  1.  Create a Trust and/or Will to provide for your minor child(ren).
    Without a trust or Will, a default state law dictates how your assets will be divided. Your assets could be tied up in an expensive Probate Court process and then placed in your children’s hands when they turn 18 – – usually not the best age for acquiring a large amount of money. A Will or Trust allows you to decide who gets your assets, and most importantly, when they get them. May people spread out gifts to children over time to allow them to mature (e.g., 1/3 at age 25, 1/3 at age 30 and 1/3 at age 35). Trusts are very common these days as they avoid the expensive and time-consuming Probate Court process, and your assets can pass to your heirs on an expedited basis. Attorney Chris Cox will discuss the various options available to you and will answer any questions that you have.
  2. Update your beneficiary designations.
    As part of your estate plan, any beneficiary designations, PODs or TODs will need to be updated and integrated together with your plan. Beneficiary designations can be used on real estate, bank accounts, cars, stock accounts, and retirement plans to seamlessly tie together your estate planning objectives and avoid certain assets from going through Probate Court. But, there are some pitfalls in naming beneficiaries directly on assets that you should discuss with our office, and allow us to advise you on the best approach.
  3. Name a guardian.
    If both of your child’s parents unexpectedly pass away before her or she is 18 years old, the court will need to appoint a legal Guardian to raise and care for your child. A guardian has the legal authority to act on your’ child’s behalf. A properly drafted Will is the only place where you can nominate who you’d like to see appointed as such Guardian. You can also name backups if that person is unable to act. The alternatives could be relatives fighting over this role or a court-appointed Guardian that your child doesn’t even know. Telling someone your wishes is not sufficient – – your wishes must be formally documented in your Will.
  4. Create a Power of Attorney.
    Any good estate plan will also include a Power of Attorney. This document allows the person you appoint as your Agent to manage your assets for you should you become incapacitated. It will allow that Agent to continue to provide financial assistance and support for your family, particularly the raising of your children.

We offer a free consultation and welcome the opportunity to speak with you about your specific goals as a new or soon to be new parent. We encourage you to ask questions and learn how preparing or updating an estate plan is one of most important things you can do in preparation of a new child. You’ve put so much into preparing for the arrival of your child, why wouldn’t you ensure you prepare for your child’s future should something happen to you? Schedule a free consultation online or call our office at 314-727-0163.

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Where to Keep Estate Plan Documents? https://attorneycox.com/where-to-keep-estate-plan-documents/ Thu, 15 Jun 2023 18:21:55 +0000 https://attorneycox.com/?p=391 Where to keep estate plan documents is a frequent question. Learn the best practices of where to keep original and copies of your estate plan documents.

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Where to Keep Estate Plan Documents?

When you leave our office, you’ll walk out with the original copies of everything you signed along with one extra photocopy. Our office recommends that your original estate planning documents be kept in a bank’s safe deposit box. If you’re married, your spouse’s name should also be on the box so that they can access it.

You should also have another trusted person listed on the box as a co-owner in addition to your spouse (e.g., adult child, sibling, good friend) so that these documents can be accessed after your passing. If you do not, the bank will require a court order to access the box which will delay matters and increase the cost for those that you leave behind.

The second-best option for keeping these original documents is in a home safe or secure lock box. Those can be purchased at a variety of locations, but be sure to check the fire rating. Many such safes and boxes will not last long in a fire, and even if they are fireproof, the high temperatures of being surrounded in flames will most likely destroy the contents. In addition, many are mobile boxes that can simply be picked up and carried out of the house by a burglar. If you do elect to keep your original documents at home, be sure others have access to the box (the combination or key) so that it can be accessed after your incapacity or passing.

We suggest keeping a full copy of your estate planning documents close at hand in your house so that copies can be used or produced to others as needed. Many people also scan those documents and keep them on their computer, iPad or smartphone where copies can easily be emailed out to others if needed. If you do so, ensure that the documents are safe from other prying eyes and that adequate security and firewalls have been employed.

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5 Reasons College Kids Need Estate Planning https://attorneycox.com/5-reasons-college-kids-need-estate-planning/ Wed, 14 Jun 2023 20:37:37 +0000 https://attorneycox.com/?p=301 Parents should have legal documents for college-aged children: FERPA Release, HIPAA Authorization, Durable Power of Attorney, Healthcare Directive, and a Will.

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5 Reasons College Kids Need Estate Planning

It seems unlikely, but college kids need estate planning for five very specific issues. If you have college aged children, you need to consider having an estate planning attorney create some basic documents to ensure their continued protection.

Although an 18-year-old still has lots to learn from his/her parents and the world, the law considers that person a legal adult, no longer under their parents’ control. Nevertheless, every year roughly 250,000 people between 18 and 25 end up hospitals throughout the U.S. In many cases, the parents of these young people may be locked out of critical decisions regarding their “adult” child’s healthcare.

I recommend everyone over the age of 18 years old have a basic estate plan in place such as a Will or Trust, a Durable Power of Attorney and a Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare and Healthcare Directive. Although the Will hopefully is never used at a young age, the Powers of Attorney routinely are. Such documents give you the legal authority to act on your adult child’s behalf if he or she is unable to do so (e.g., injured, in the hospital, out of the country, etc).

Before sending your children to college, here are 5 basic documents you want to consider having an attorney draft for your college-age child:

FERPA Release
Many parents with first-time college aged children learn the hard way about the privacy protection afforded to college students under the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA). FERPA prevents a parent from receiving any information from school about a student, including grades, healthcare and more. It doesn’t matter if you are the parent or that you are paying the bills. A properly drafted and signed release allows school officials to speak with you and release your child’s records to you, including use of any school healthcare services.
HIPAA Authorization
You’ve likely heard of the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) designed to protect a patient’s privacy. If your child is over 18 years of age, HIPAA prevents doctors from speaking with you about their healthcare. A properly drafted HIPAA authorization document will ensure doctors can continue to speak you about that child’s condition, care and treatment.

Durable Financial Power of Attorney
This document allows you, the parent, to have access to and handle your child’s finances should the need arise. E.g., to pay their bills, handle their checking account and credit cards, etc. This is frequently used when a child has a prolonged illness or injury or if the student is otherwise unable to do so (such as a trip to a foreign country for study abroad).

Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare and Healthcare Directive
This legal document allows you or a designated person to make medical decisions for your child in the event he/she is unable to make his/her own decisions, and also sets forth their wishes and directives for treatment.

A Will
While you may think that a Will is an unnecessary document for a young college student, and everyone hopes you’re correct, it is still worth your consideration. A Will can designate who can manage and/or close bank accounts, social media accounts, email accounts, gaming accounts and similar “properties”.

To learn more about how these documents can protect you and your college student, feel free to call or email me directly at my office at 314-727-0163 or contact me online.

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